Celebrate Singles’ Day regardless if you’re single or not!
Singles’ Day takes place on November 11 each year. It originates from China and it began as a celebration for single people back in the 1990s. That was the day when students at Nanjing University would celebrate their single-hood. After it was adopted by a giant e-commerce business, Singles’ Day became a massive shopping holiday world-wide.
Whether you want to celebrate being romantically unattached or you want to go shopping on the largest shopping holiday of the year, here’s a list of suggestions on how to spend 11/11: read more
On SugarDaters you can find the perfect Sugar Babe for you, which is why we want to make sure that your profile is representing you in the best way possible. We know it can be tricky sometimes to create the best online dating profile, which is why we prepared a few tips for you.
Where to start?
The first thing that Sugar Baby will notice is your profile picture! You don’t have to be Brad Pitt to attract attention.Just make sure that your picture is good quality, shot with a good lighting (preferably natural one) and it shows your full face. Present a natural smile (women are not attracted to Mr. Grumpy Guy) and try to look approachable, like someone that she could just say ‘hi’ to.
The next thing that she will notice is your profile description. Try to describe yourself in the essence (mention how you like to spend your free time and what drives you in life) also say a little bit about your expectations, so that she knows what you want to get out of your relationship.
Add more pictures! Once sugar baby sees your profile picture and reads your bio, she will want to see more! Add picture showing your full posture, so that she has a clear idea on how you look like. Show how you like to spend your free time, maybe a picture from your last holidays or from a beautiful hike. She won’t be able to resist imagining herself with you on those great adventures.
Fill out all fields on your profile page, it includes your occupation, education and physical appearance. It helps the sugar baby to see who you are and what you are interested in. It will be easier for her to relate to you once she knows basic information about you. You’re a businessman? Great, maybe her friend just started a start-up. You’re a lawyer? Maybe she was always curious how it is inside of the courtroom. Don’t miss out on the opportunity to find common topics with her.
Portray yourself as a positive person. Don’t include any negative or discouraging descriptions in your bio. That will make her lose interest in you.
Make sure that you don’t have any spelling/grammar errors!
What not to do?
You shouldn’t exaggerate. Don’t overwhelm her with an enormous amount of information. Provide all the details mentioned above, but try to keep it relatively short and clear-cut. Spark her interest about yourself, but don’t give everything away too soon. It can be hard to do, but imagine it as your online dating equivalent of your business card. You want to provide all the necessities, but still you want to interest her in the meeting. Give her an appetiser, not a main course.
Be careful not to get carried away. Don’t include anything inappropriate in your profile (or during your face-to-face meeting). It’s a huge no go.
You shouldn’t insist too much. If she doesn’t reply back to your message, don’t write a second one. If she’s interested, you will know.
Implement all the above mentioned tips and you will definitely get more matches. The most important outcome of this post – show who you are! But don’t give everything away. Comment below if the tips helped (or if you have anything to add).read more
More often than should be acceptable, we, the SugarDaters® team, receive complaints from both SugarBabies and SugarDaddies that either party is only looking for sex. That is not what sugardating is about and this behaviour usually earns a ban. Moreover, by behaving this way, they are completely missing the point and are denying themselves the chance of having one of the best dating experiences. So… to give some pointers, we have listed a number of different ways to approach SugarDating arrangements with your partner.read more
While browsing the internet we came across several very interesting facts about owning a realistic male sex doll. As we all know, the sex doll industry has flourished over the last couple of years, thanks to the magnificent improvements in technology and manufacturing processes. Today’s love dolls are realistic, extremely beautiful, and reasonably priced. They even come with a fully articulated metal skeleton which allows you to have your male sex doll in any position you can think of. This means that your imagination can truly go wild with these amazing sex toys.read more
Can you recognise a kind of soulmate in a person who is 20 or even 30 years younger than you? Some members of Sugardaters® might chuckle and reply that it can’t be done, because multi-generational relationships are nothing more than the kind of ‘marriage of convenience’ that can be characterised as simply paying for someone’s company.
Yet in all the years you’ve been sugar dating, have you ever had the nagging feeling that a sugar baby was close to you? Right away you could connect with her emotions, you could imagine her among her family members and, as if by magic, these thoughts inspired you how to behave and she could confide in you very naturally. Confidence came easily. This is what psychology calls the “mirror effect“. read more
Sugar Dating represents a dream, an exchange between two people in need.
At the beginning, Sugar Dating is about defining with accuracy your own needs and then putting yourself in the best possible light in order to maximise your chances for finding a compatible person. There is no immediate success, it is the pathway that counts. In other words, what you learn at each step of your experience will determine the quality of your future relationships.
On each date it is crucial to make space in your life for the sugar baby you are interested in. In this way you are giving a real dimension to the relationship. Sugar Dating is definitely not a “quicky” in a brothel. It demands a real emotional investment. Although the financial side exists, it is important not to create a feeling of obligation for your sugar baby. Prepare yourself to suit the role, think like a sugar daddy, yet be natural and relaxed. Whether because of magic or of attraction, some babies will come knocking at your door. read more
Social intuition comes with practice. Every Sugar Daddy should learn to get used to a woman’s presence.
Some of the skills that all good Sugar Daddies should have: anticipating reactions, defusing a conflict, knowing how to smoothly propose an outing and others.
However, this is not that easy to acquire, since one of the main issues is that Sugar Daddies have to deal with various personalities in ever changing contexts. This requires the skill to adapt to situations where the Sugar Daddy must put his Sugar Babe’s emotions before his own and take the right decisions with detachment and discernment when it is necessary.
It started out as a fun thing to try, with no expectation of continuing it. However, I quickly realised the Sugar Dating is not like media describes it.
What I quickly found out on the site, was that sugar-dating is not just onething. I have come to realize that you really have two axes that people are on:
One axis is “I really need sugar” vs. “I don’t want sugar”
One axis is “I want fun” vs “I want serious”
I think many people get the wrong picture just by looking at the “I really need sugar” + “I want fun” part of the Sugar Dating community. I have absolutely nothing against people that want that combination, it’s just a huge turn-off for me so I avoid it.read more
Contrary to what many sugardaddies may believe, there are cases where money can work against a sugardaddy’s interests.
“Why is he so special for me to decide to stay with him?” is a question a woman likes to ask, not only in Sugardating but also in any other kind of relationship.
On the one hand, a sugarbaby likes to be praised, to feel as if she is the most beautiful woman and to be the centre of attention. On the other hand (unlike many sugardaddies might believe) she likes to be challenged as well, in the sense that she needs to find reasons to persuade herself to be with you.
Being in the company of other women in front of her, is of course one of the things that you can do in order to provoke her curiosity and to improve her interest in you. However, not letting her know that you are willing to spend money on her (not even talking about money at all) can really be a test for measuring the level of attraction she has for you!
I can recall two particular cases of sugarbabies from SugarDaters that I have dated in the past. During our dates, I chose not to address the question of money at all. I foremost wanted to see how much I could approach her without playing the card of money. After two weeks of a constant exchange of calls and texts I managed to go out with them for dinner AND spend the night with them afterwards, without mentioning money. Then I quickly realised that these sugarbabies were not in need of money in the first place. read more
For most of the sugar babies, a sugar daddy plays the role of the saviour. He is the one who saves them from parental authority and strict education. He provides them with a door that leads to a life full of experiences where they can also discover their own body.
By replacing the father’s affection, a sugar daddy can be a guide or a mentor as well. Because of his cool and relaxed attitude, whilst giving wise advice about career, love or friendship, the sugar daddy inspires confidence and represents a natural authority free from judgment.read more
Sugar daddies represent experience and wisdom. However, after the age of 40, not all of them know which direction their sentimental life should take. Although, sugar dating for some just means entertainment, for some others it is a real initiation course that usually occurs after a divorce at an age when their personal values are questioned. The beauty of sugar dating is the period when it happens: it is the time when sugar babies (women at the end of their adolescence) meet sugar daddies (men at the beginning of their emotional reconstruction period). At the age of forty (or even more), some men embrace the image of a “holy mother” by considering well educated model girls as their own daughters. They then start to play the role of guide advisor and protector. They support them. They become their sugar daddies. read more
We simply can’t get enough of becoming more familiar with our members lifestyle, and what is a better way to do so, than to run yet another survey.
This time we’d like to get straight to business and ask you about your financial relationship with your SugarBabe. Do you think your babe’s wishes are too demanding? How much of your income actually goes on keeping her spoiled?
If you want to participate, go ahead and answer three simple questions in the survey below. Each daddy’s opinion counts and all answers are completely anonymous. We can’t wait to see the results! The final data may be used for marketing purposes.read more
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Have you already taken part into the #10yearschallenge movement? If not, we invite you to do so but with a twist. To be precise we dare you to think about at where would you see yourself in 10 years from now.
Which category are you in? “Once a Sugar Babe, always a Sugar Babe? Or you would see yourself more in “From Sugar Babe to Sugar Mama?”
If you’ve watched our short video, leave a comment below saying where do you think you’re gonna be in 10 years from now.
We would like to ask you for 2 min of your time and fill in the survey you can find below. The survey concerns your experience and thoughts about infidelity. We assure your that all answers are anonymous so there is no right or wrong answer.
Infidelity used to have negative connotations that have been relaxing steadily through the years. Several recent studies have shown a very large percentage of men and women in monogamous relationships that actively search for an affair.
InfideliDating is a prejudice-free club where men and women are given the respect to make their own decisions for their own private reasons without any external judgement. The platform is a safe tool for those seeking an affair.read more
Let’s make 2019 the year of interaction on SugarDaters®
Does this situation look familiar? If you are a sugar daddy, perhaps you are about to give up on your hopes to find a sugar baby of your dreams. Why? Because you are sending out tons of messages and receive silence, or sometimes even a price list, in return. We understand how frustrating that can be and we are ready to help you change that. Think about it this way. The quality of Sugar Daters community depends on all of us. So please report the users that are offering their services or are otherwise breaking our rules. Furthermore, make sure you are making the most of your subscription by starting interesting and meaningful conversations. Younger people can be spoiled by attention and easily distracted. So it is up to you to make your first message stands out from the rest.read more
Become somebody’s Santa: SugarDaters® invite you to help the homeless in Romania
So we assume you already got a present for your Sugar babe (if not, what are you waiting for??). But have you already made your Christmas donation? As a Sugar Daddy, you don’t need a lesson on how to be generous, giving and supporting. You know that better than anyone. So let’s get right down to business.
What Is This About?
This Christmas, we decided to connect our Sugar Daddies with those in need. As a result, we partnered up with Samusocial – an organisation that for 9 years is working to improve the living conditions of the homeless in Romania. read more
Do you know the feeling that one chapter of your life has come to end? That you needed this process to create the person you are now? My chapter related to this blog naturally ended. The past 17 months have been an incredible and unforgettable experience. I had a chance to describe my life and unconventional events related to Sugar Dating.
Thanks to SugarDaters Blog I got to know many inspiring, positive and open-minded people. I was able to express my feelings, passions, and frustrations. I also think that I went through a transformation as an author. From an inexperienced blogger, I became a full-blown writer expressing myself in a sincere way. Weekly diving into reflections of Sugar Dating gave me an understanding of this type of life and let me get to know this environment. I got rid of many prejudices and I opened myself to others. Nobody will take away my experiences, and the people I have met will become friends for years.read more